Ceremony Fit Coaching
There's one part of your big day that's difficult to rehearse, and that’s how you might respond in the moment. You'll be standing in front of everyone you love, saying the most important and personal words of your life. Out loud. You may read a meaningful poem or song lyric, or say personal vows, you may exchange rings. With everyone watching.
Wonderful? Absolutely. Nerve-racking? Sometimes. With over a thousand weddings under our belts, We Do realise that you will have had less practice. Ceremony Fit is a relaxed, one-off 90-minute session with Andrew the week before your big day. It's for anyone who'd rather confront their concerns beforehand and have strategies at the ready. Whether you're worried about standing in front of lots of people, saying your vows, or simply not knowing what to expect, Andrew will help you feel calm, confident and ready to enjoy every bit of your ceremony.
Ceremony Fit is tailored to you, so we'll start by talking about what worries you most. Depending on what you need, we might cover:
Public speaking…
Reading your vows to yourself is one thing; saying them out loud is quite another. We'll find your pace, your pauses and the confidence to mean every word without any wobbles. You never know, you might enjoy yourself!
The ring exchange…(and/or hand fasting, sand or cocktail mixing)
It all seems straightforward, right up until everyone's watching. We'll talk through the practicalities so there are no surprises on the day.
Holding your nerve…
Nerves are normal, and We Do know that nerves are because you mean it! Even the calmest people can feel overwhelmed on the day, so we'll work on practical techniques you can use.
Timings…
Understanding how the ceremony unfolds helps you feel more relaxed and in control. We'll make sure you know what to expect, where to be and what happens at each stage.
The little details…
From knowing where to stand to what to do with your hands, we'll make sure the little things don't become big worries.
We Do want you to feel excited and happy, and calm and together. That's exactly what Ceremony Fit is designed to help you achieve. It's available as an optional extra for couples who book their ceremony with We Do Brighton; mention it when you get in touch and we'll take it from there.
Love,
Andrew and Eve